It went fully inn..I am actually shocked by how much I have learnt from these sessions. I have to admit I had no idea that marriage was such a tricky situation. Two people tied by law under God and in front of bareeee witnesses..claiming that you love eachother and want to be together forever...if it flops ou have to pay bare money for a divorce, God won't be too hapz and all those people who were there will think u were chatting crap #pressure
So marriage counselling has taught us ways to overcome the pressures that come with marriage; but it is up to us to follow through with it. Being good at marriage is like being a good driver, you study for the theory (counselling), use it to help pass your practical (1st months of marriage) then you pick up bad habits (rest of marriage)... But what I really want to do is to be one of those drivers that still use 2 hands, use all their mirrors and put up their handbreak at the traffic light 5 years after they've passed and pretty much for the rest of their lives.
Half of the marriage counselling today was abou things that can go wrong at weddings and omd did it scare me!!! Like lack of reserved seats for important people and caterers, decorators, dj's etc. disappointingt couples on the day...Some of the stories were actually peak so I'm going into planning overload this week! It's like 5 weeks 5 days and a couple of minutes till my wedding day...need to get stuff sorted asap. Therefore, if you call me and I'm talking about is wedding planning...don't get offended just get off my line coz thats about all that is occupying my brain apart from God, my family, my Prince and carbs. So yh, jam your hype and don't call if you don't want to hear about any of those things...And hopefully:
Then I can have the day I've always dreamed of:
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